Mistress Couple

Meet the Mistress

Best known for her psychological approach to BDSM, Mistress Couple has been interviewed as an authority in the field for media outlets including Cosmopolitan, VICE, The Daily Beast, Huffington Post, and Racked. Mistress Couple served as the Head Mistress of La Domaine Esemar, the world's oldest BDSM training chateau, for close to 6 years before branching out to focus on her solo career. Recently, Mistress Couple released her first book, The Ultimate Guide to Bondage: Creating Intimacy Through the Art of Restraint. In her spare time, she loves dancing, listening to live music, and enjoying nature, in addition to mercilessly teasing her submissives.

Meet The Dominatrix (in her own words)

Sensual and Strict, I am the Mistress of your dreams.

A Gemini and professional Ballroom Dancer, the name originates from the dichotomous nature of my personality.

Soft yet Harsh.

Caring yet Devastating.

Petite yet Powerful.

There are always two sides of the coin. 

I delight in training some of the best protocol-oriented slaves in the world. My standards are high, and you will be eager to reach them because the rewards are plentiful.

I have a unique ability to reach deep inside of people's psyche's and coax out their most hidden desires. I love holding space for people to express their true selves, the ones they hide from the rest of the world behind a mask.

Ushering novices into this world is one of my favorite things to do, and I absolutely love to challenge experienced fetishists. 

Do you think you have what it takes to serve me? There’s really only one way to find out…

Mistress Couple is tremendous and will bring you to the extreme edge and back. You will be craving her appetite for more! She stands with beauty, grace, and devious appeal. Mistress Couple is well worth a visit!!
— Anonymous


My mission as a

Professional Dominatrix
& Sex Educator

It is my mission to provide a clean, safe, sexy, and most importantly- comfortable environment for people to explore their deepest desires without judgement or shame.

I value innovation in the practice of BDSM and connection, making BDSM education accessible, open and honest communication, empathy, integrity, honoring leather tradition, supporting and engaging with community, and Risk-Aware Consensual KInk (RACK).


A window into my world.
Get your voyeuristic thrills by checking out  my Instagram feed!


Upcoming Events

Stay up to date on all of my public appearances, workshops, and tours so that we can meet in the flesh!


Session Tour Dates

I absolutely love to travel! If coming to New York to see me isn’t an option for you, stay tuned here. Maybe you’ll get lucky and I’ll stop through your city!


Public events and classes

Can’t make it to La Domaine to study with me? Don’t worry! I travel all around the country teaching classes and workshops as well as hosting events. Study or party with me in your own city!