Sessions for Couples
Helping couples to achieve intimacy and deep connection through BDSM practice is one of my greatest passions. As a former Ballroom Dance instructor, I excel in teaching couples how to communicate effectively. I have worked with over 200 couples as a BDSM counselor in a variety of capacities. I am especially experienced with couples where one person has been interested in BDSM for a long time and is trying to bring their novice partner on board. Don’t worry, you’re not alone! This is very typical, and I have a great track record with helping couples get on the same page.
I offer talk sessions, educational hands-on training, and even play scenarios where couples can submit together or one partner can dominate the other with my guidance and assistance. I also offer in-home consultations on how to sex up or kinkify your bedroom in discreet ways (great for couples with kids!)
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CHOOSE A SESSION
Nowadays, you can find public BDSM classes on a variety of topics, but some things are better learned in a more intimate setting.
Educational sessions provide a private, non-judgemental space for intimate learning based on your personal limits and desires.
These sessions are not fantasy or play oriented. They are geared more toward learning about theory, technique, and communication skills in regards to BDSM practices.
I understand that comfort levels vary for different couples, so I offer a variety of experiences. If you prefer for me to demonstrate a skill on you or your partner, I am glad to do so. I am also happy to invite a professional demo-bottom to join us so that you can watch while I instruct.
Like all other sessions, no sexual contact is permitted between myself and clients.
Play sessions are built around the concept of bringing a fantasy to life. Couples can choose to submit to me together (A great bonding experience), or for one partner to co-top the other with me as a guest star/guide.
Play sessions are structured by in depth negotiation and planning. Like all other sessions, your boundaries will be respected. You will never be expected to do something that you’re not comfortable with.
If you’re not sure what activities you might want to experience, I am happy to listen to your hopes and goals for the experience and offer a few suggestions for areas of exploration.
I offer BDSM lifestyle training/coaching for couples via videochat on a limited basis. I offer these trainings in packages, so after the initial session, you must purchase more than one session if you wish to continue long distance training and set up a recurring schedule.
This is a great option for folks who are not local to the East Coast who are delving into a new power exchange dynamic, and could use help with setting healthy guidelines and boundaries, or working through other relationship challenges.
Some notes regarding sessions
Deposits: For first-time sessions, I require a non-refundable $50 deposit to reserve your appointment. Deposits can be sent through Venmo, Google Wallet, or the good old fashioned personal check. Deposit info is presented on all invoices.
Cancellation policy: Cancellations with more than 48 hrs notice will be honored without penalty. Cancellations with less than 48 hrs notice will require a $50 deposit (subtracted from session fee) for all subsequent sessions. The deposit will only be applied toward the session if client reschedules with more than 48 hrs notice or shows up for the scheduled session.
Session time- I offer sessions in increments by the hour- PLEASE DO NOT REQUEST ½ hr time blocks.
First-time clients may schedule up to three hours, but no more, for an initial appointment. Repeat clients may book extended sessions (I offer 12 and 24 hour extended sessions) if they have a good track record with punctuality, attendance, obedience, and respect. I offer sessions 6 days a week, but for weekend appointments, there is a 2-hour minimum. *My preference for all sessions is at least a 2-hour session so that we really have time to dive in deep.*
Tribute Rates- Starting rates are different for different types of sessions. Educational sessions start at $150/hr, play sessions start at $450/hr, outcall sessions start at $300/hr plus paid travel time, and long distance/virtual training starts at $250/hr. Tribute rates are subject to change based on requested activities, required preparation, or behavior. If your session requires extra time, effort, or energy on my behalf, you will be expected to pay for it.
Scholarship Rates- Each month, I have two session times reserved for individuals who require financial assistance. People of color, non-binary folks, people with disabilities, college students, and senior citizens will be given first priority. Please be considerate when asking for a scholarship rate- these are meant to be available for people who really need the assistance, not those who want a discounted session rate.